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Something Worth SharingThe 5 Unconscious Questions
We are all trying our best; we may be working for a promotion, trying to be present for our kids, building value in our business, trying to keep paying the mortgage or simply getting through the day in one piece. Whatever is being worked on, and however much effort is applied, we found that there are 5 important questions that sit at the very heart of matters. From world leaders to janitors, from social media influencers to tax advisers, and from royalty to your neighbours, everyone is simply trying to figure out the answer to these basic 5 questions: Am I good enough? Do I belong? Am I deserving? How am I responsible? Am I loved?
Age, religion, culture etc is irrelevant. As humans we need to feel that we can answer these - and answer them positively. However, they are sitting in our subconscious and are therefore often controlling externally behaviours. In addition to that, we can unconsciously succumb to the five, and / or overcompensate for them. Our starting point for these questions, and how they impact us, begins in early life based on our early experiences from care-givers. Each of the questions exist for survival reasons - if you look at them, they are all connected to being in a cave with our tribe! No matter what challenges you’re facing and how you show up, we can trace things back to the 5 questions and how you’re responding to them. This is true for everyone around you too.
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